Hospital Births

If you have decided to deliver your baby at a hospital there are some things you will want to do in order to prepare for that. One of the main things you need to keep in mind is that you are having the baby, not the doctors, nurses or your mother-in-law. And the last thing you want to be worried about while in labor is what other people want. With a little preparation beforehand your hospital delivery can go well.

Put it in Writing

Sometime around your seventh or eight month you and your spouse need to make a labor and delivery plan. Write it down and pack it in with everything else you are taking to the hospital.

On this list the mother will want to list what she wants and does not want. For example if you are dead set against any kind of pain medication, write it down. If you want to be up and walking around, write it down.

There are several reasons for this making this plan. You can give a copy to your doctor ahead of time so she knows your wishes. The nurses can be given a copy for your records. It provides a solid foundation for your spouse or support person to argue on your behalf in the case that they need too. It helps you clarify your desires beforehand instead of having to try and get your point across in hard labor.

Doctors Are Not Gods

While a hospital delivery can be a pleasant experience, sometimes there can be problems. In the middle of labor, after already having discussed using a birthing room, your doctor may suddenly tell you that you are headed for the delivery room.

Be calm but firm. Unless she can give you a medical reason for the changes they want to make, stick to your guns. You do not have to put up with the whims of doctors or nurses.

Pack Your Suitcase

Although most hospital stays are typically brief, be prepared for two days and possibly two nights, plus labor time. Pack a comfy night gown and slippers. Make sure it is easily adjusted for nursing if you are going to be breastfeeding the baby.

Bring your own toiletries. Gone are the days when hospitals supply the niceties unless they charge you. Snacks, reading material and other item you are going to want during labor should go into the suitcase ahead of time.

You will want to pack a going home outfit for the baby. If it is winter make sure you bring adequate outer clothing for the baby.

Do not forget to make sure the car seat has been put in the car, or you will not be able to take the baby home.

Rest and Recovery

Hospitals are not generally the best place to rest. Nurses and visitors come in and out of the rooms. You are disturbed in the middle of the night to check your blood pressure. Babies cry during the night. Not to mention adjusting to your new baby.

But you can try and keep the hustle and bustle to a minimum. Tell nurses you do not want to be bothered at night unless absolutely necessary. Keeping the baby in the room with you can help. You can rest when baby is sleeping. Have family and friends stick to visiting hours you decide upon. Limit the number of visitors at one time.

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